Girlfriends Magazine Online The Art Of Making Love

Some men become so consumed with the size of their penis and actually believe that their lack of love life has to do with their size, that they forget that there is an art to making love, that has nothing to do with the size of your penis and everything to do with sexual attraction, seduction and allure.

Let’s face it, women are different than men and learning what sexually attracts women and how to seduce them with do more for your love life than that an extraordinarily large penis.

sexual-attractionCreating Sexual Attraction

Unlike many men who form a sexual attraction to woman based solely on looks, for most women looks are only part of what attracts them to man. Taking the time to learn to how to capture a woman’s interest and hold it is essential improving your love life. Showing real interest in a woman, and learning to ask the right questions to make her feel as though you are truly interested in who she is as person will often result in most women seeing you in as far more attractive than you might otherwise think.

However, sexual attraction can be extremely short lived if you aren’t skilled in the art of allure and seduction.

If you are attracted to a woman, and she doesn’t seem equally attracted to you, you can create that sexual attraction or interest simply by showing a real interest in who they are, the things they like to do, and allow them to see that that sincere interest. When a woman sees that your interest goes well beyond the superficial they often can’t resist feeling a mutual attraction.

The Art of Seduction and Allure


In order to get a woman to want to become intimate with you, you need to become skilled in the art of seduction and allure. Seducing a woman is nothing more than making a woman feel as she is someone desirable and special to you. Eye contact is one of the most important tools when learning how to seduce a woman. Women often find themselves responding with sexual interest to a man who can’t seem to take their eyes off of them.

Listening is another tool men needs to have in their seduction trick man. There is something really sexually appealing about a man who actually listens to a woman’s wants and needs and then acts on what they hear and interesting ways. Simple touches are also a great tool that makes a man alluring. While women may dislike to be grabbed, they enjoy and respond to affection and light touches on their arm or shoulder, putting a hand on the small of their back when walking, or the simple act of holding hands. Small touches can actually fire feelings of sexual excitement in women and build a small attraction into one that is surprisingly strong.

One of the benefits of learning the art of seduction is that you will find that you are more sexually excited and attracted to the woman’s response to you.

foreplaySeduction Doesn’t Stop at the Bedroom Door

You need to remember that seduction doesn’t stop at the bedroom door.

If you really want to be manly in bed, then you need to learn how to continue the seduction and increase the pleasure of the sexual experience for both of you. More often than not delaying gratification for a short while, increases sexual attraction more than anything else.

While you may want to get right down to business, most women enjoy some extended foreplay, flattering, but sincere comments, and feeling feminine. Surprisingly, the man who learns how to seduce a woman in and out of bed usually has no worries that woman will be concerned about the size of your penis as they will be overwhelmed by your attention and the feelings you invoke in them.





In the back of most men’s minds is the fantasy of having a larger firmer penis, with no difficulty in having erections, and being desired by all women for their sexual prowess and the envy of all men. No matter how unrealistic this dream may be, it persists and many of today’s manufacturing companies play into this unrealistic desire by flooding the market with dick pills or what is also known as penis enhancers.

big-dick-pillsThese manufacturers manage to stay in business and create more and more of these big dick pills because, many men are willing to buy into the fantasy these manufacturers create. Some because they do have some erectile dysfunction, and others simply because they feel their penis is too small or that their sex life could be better.

The Fantasy Penis Enhancement Pill Manufacturers Create

In order to discuss whether dick pills featured on work or not, we need to first look at the fantasy that penis enhancement pills manufacturers create. In many cases, these manufacturers not only promise potential customers that they will be able to get and maintain an erection, but that they can permanently grow a larger and wider penis by using their product. Others also claim that their special pill will increase libido and actually make sex more pleasurable both for the man and for his partner.

How the Market For Penis Pills Got Created

The market for penis pills got created due to movies, television, social media, and peer groups all of which made sex “a big thing” and gave most men the impression that to be a “real man” they should have large penises, know how to use and want to sex have all time.

big-dick-manMen would look at themselves and find themselves wondering if their penis was really large enough to satisfy their partner, or why they didn’t want sex several times a day. While some men, do have some very real problems, gaining and keeping erections, others who were perfectly normal found themselves thinking that had problems due to size or lack of libido and decided that they needed to do something about it.

And since talking about sexual problems even perceived ones, are difficult for most men, penis pills they could order online or just go out and buy seemed to be the ideal answer to all their penis problems real or imagined?

Do Penis Pills Work?

Of course many men do take the time to ask whether or not dick pills actually work. Although most people would expect a simple yes or no answer, the answer is really not all that simple and depends on a great deal on the purpose for which you are buying the pills. Let’s work at some of the reasons why men buy penis pills and whether they are suitable for that purpose.

Pills To Increase Sexual Pleasure

There are also some pills that make a man’s penis more sensitive and thereby increase the pleasure he is feeling. However, often times creams do better at sensitizing specific areas of the body.

Pills that Increase Libido

While many manufacturers of pills of men, claim their pills with increase a man’s sex drive or libido, this is not really case. There are a number of reasons why men have low libidos including:

  • Other medications for health problems
  • Fatigue
  • Stress
  • Drug or Alcohol consumption
  • Relationship issues

penis-growth-pleasureIf the underlying cause for the lack of libido is not dealt with, then chances are there is not going to be anything that can or will increase your sexual drive.

Permanent Penis Growth

Although some manufactures claim that with their pills you will see a larger and wider penis within a few months of use, this simply is not going to happen. There is no pill that is going to result in permanent growth of this organ and certainly not in the 2 to 4 inches many manufacturers claim.

Do keep in mind that before taking any penis enhancement pill you should check with a professional medical doctor to ensure that your health and the pill you are taking is safe and won’t cause you to suffer from serious negative side effects.

Many men who want a larger penis, resort to all kinds of different activities to try and improve the size of their penis. Among the most popular forms of attempts at enlarging penis’s is penis stretching. Stretching the penis can be done in a number of different ways from simple exercises, to the use of mechanical devices. But do any of these stretching maneuvers work and if so how much size do you stand to gain?

Types of Penis Stretching

There are several different types of penis stretching that men have tried in order to increase the size the size of their penis. Some of these methods include:

  • Penis Pulling- Penis pulling is exactly what it sounds like, you simply take hold of the tip of the penis and pull it downward, normally holding it for the count of 30 and then repeat two or three times.
  • Exercises- So called penis exercises are really not exercises at all since there are no muscles in this piece of equipment. What these exercises really are, is a combination of pulling, and massaging that helps to encourage blood flow to your penis
  • Attaching Weights or Traction- Attaching weight or using traction as a means of penis stretching simply is an easy way to keep a constant pulling pressure on your penis in the hopes of stretching the penis slowly over time. With both weights and traction, the weight or the amount of traction is increased over time.
  • Pumps- Penis pumps are often used in the shower and they too stretch the penis using pressure to pull on the penis.

What Types of Results Can You See From Penis Stretching

If you are expecting phenomenal results from penis stretching you are sure to be extremely disappointed. It will take at least 6 months to a year to see any results to hours of stretching, and even then results with only be modest. Most men will anywhere from a fraction of an inch to a 1/2” in length, and even then increasing the length may effect the girth of the penis. While some people claim results of up 1 ½ inches in lengths these results are few and far between, if they can be believed at all.

doctorIn addition, once growth is achieved it will take continued stretching to maintain any growth you have achieved.

Negatives of Penis Stretching

While men who indulge in penis stretching in order to achieve a “bigger” penis focus on the goal of growth and the perceived benefits of stretching they often tend to ignore the negatives and side effects that penis stretching can involve. Here is a look at some of the negatives aspects of penis stretching.

  • Continuous Time Spent Alone- Unless you have a partner that is willing to spend a good of time helping you stretch your penis, then you are going to be spending a great deal of time alone. Penis stretching takes time, and if you are going to spend 30 minutes twice a day stretching your penis for up to year, then you are going to be spending some quality time all alone.
  • Damage and Deformity- If you indulge in penis stretching incorrectly or do it too often you can damage your penis causing you to experience pain when making love. Even worse you can actually cause your penis to become deformed resulting in difficulty making love, and a lowering of self esteem.
  • Sexual Dysfunction- One of the worst things that can happen when trying to stretch the penis is that you could cause yourself difficulties in order to get and maintain an erection. It won’t you do much good to ½ inch longer penis if you are unable to use that vital piece of equipment to enjoy an erection and please your partner.

If you have an average 5 to 6 inch long erected penis, then you are far better off to maintain that average penis than to risk sexual dysfunction by trying to stretch that penis when it really isn’t necessary.

Few people are ever satisfied with their bodies, and when it comes to men, many of them find themselves wishing for a larger Penis. Men who are unsatisfied with their penis size often suffer from a lack of self confidence in bed, which can result in temporary or even chronic erectile dysfunction. In most cases, men who long for larger penis’s normally have average size equipment and simply have difficulty realizing that their penis size actually falls within the norm. Once they do realize that their equipment is normal and average, their self esteem climbs up and they learn to make do with what they were born with.

permanent-penis-growthHowever, there are a few men who may have slightly smaller than normal penis’s or simply want to be larger than normal and seek some magic elixir or pill to help them grow those extra inches they long to have. Many turn to penis pills in the hope of permanently growing a large penis.

What are Penis Enhancement Pills?

Normally made up of blends of herbs, penis enhancement pills offer potential users a variety of claims. While some of these pills only promises to help men get firmer more long lasting erections, some manufacturers actually promise that taking their pills will result in permanent growth over time. The simple truth is that while some of these pills you may find at do help men to gain an erection, or maintain one for longer, there is absolutely no evidence that any of these pills will result in permanent penis growth.

The Truth About Penis Growth

The simple truth is, the amount your penis grows, like your legs, or your height is going to be determined by a number of different things including heredity. While exercises and other activities may increase your penis to it’s full size, there is nothing that is going to make it grow larger than God or nature intended.

That’s not to say that there aren’t some well made pills that can help you feel better about your penis when it is erected, but they certainly aren’t going to help you add on inches when your equipment is relaxed.

Male Enhancement Pills and Penis Growth

While enhancement pills can’t permanently grow your penis, what they can do is increase the flow of blood to your penis during an erection to make your penis fully engorged so that it looks longer and wider. This not only results in giving a man the impression that his equipment is larger, but may also increase his ability to maintain an erection for longer and increases sensitivity so that you can experience increased enjoyment so may your partner.

male-pillsShould You or Shouldn’t You Pop Those Pills?

Now that you know what enhancement pills can and can’t do, you are probably wondering if taking these pills are worthwhile. The answer to that question is depends on what you are expecting these pills to do.

  • If you suffer from an inability to get or maintain an erection or your erection is not as hard as you would like it to be, then taking a good quality enhancement pill may well help you deal with these issues and make you feel more manly.
  • If you don’t have trouble getting or maintaining a solid erection and simply wish that your penis was bigger both at rest and when it is erect, then no pill is going to help you achieve that goal. You will better off, to try exercises and even penis stretching in order to give yourself a permanently larger looking penis.

However, do keep in mind, if you are able to stretch your penis chances are it will only result in a fraction of an inch to an inch and increasing the length often reduces the girth.

The best way to have a more fulfilled sex life is to concentrate on increasing intimacy instead of the size of your penis.

Penis size is correlated with some of the worst body image issues men experience; while men are typically less criticized by the media for their weight and overall appearance than women are, the size of a man’s penis is often directly linked to his confidence, virility, sexual prowess, and by proxy, much of his personality.

Obviously, this idea is one that does a great deal of harm to many men, who live in fear of being mocked by their female lovers and other men alike. This anxiety is, in fact, far more widespread than it ought to be: While almost half of men (45%) believe that their penis is “too small”, in reality, the average penis is only about 4-6 inches long even when fully erect. The unrealistic expectations most men have about penis size are largely the result of pornography.

What Women Really Think About Penis Size

So, do women really prefer large penises? Do they have the same unrealistic expectations men do?

The answer to this question is as variable as individual women are; when it comes to penises, there is no “one size fits all” rule. One thing is for certain, however: The myth that all women prefer large penises is as pervasive—and untrue—as the myth that all men prefer large breasts. The vast majority of women (85%) are actually perfectly happy with the size of their partner’s genitals, meaning that far more women are happy with “small” penises than men are.

g-spotUnderstanding Female Anatomy

One thing that men generally do not realize when judging the size of their genitals is that not all women’s vaginas are one size, either. Many women cannot actually handle having intercourse with a man who is too well endowed, as it causes pain and a great deal of discomfort (this is another area where porn has given most people truly exaggerated ideas regarding what people can handle in bed).

The average vagina size is only about 3-4 inches long, and many women who have not had children also have fairly narrow vaginal canals. Ergo, the myth that one needs an unusually large penis to satisfy most women is completely false.

And, even if your penis is below average size, don’t despair; there are some women out there who have unusually small vaginas as well, and as such, cannot comfortably have intercourse with even an average-sized man. For these women, finding a man with a smaller penis is actually a dream come true.

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